Supporting the person behind the athlete
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SOAR Sports Counselling
Personalized, evidence-based counselling supporting the person behind the athlete - in sport and beyond. 1:1 child, youth, or young adult sport counselling sessions. Ages 6-24.
$175 | 50 min
All rates are not subject to GST & services are covered by most extended health plan insurance providers.
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Supporting the person behind the athlete.
Sport can bring joy, connection, and purpose. It can also bring expectations, uncertainty, and difficult feelings—alongside everything else that comes with growing up.
SOAR Sports offers counselling for children, youth, and young adults across recreational, competitive, and high-performance sport. Whether someone is finding their confidence, navigating pressure, recovering from a setback, or questioning their next steps, we make space to understand their experience and what matters to them.
Research supports approaches such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for treating anxiety in children and youth. Studies involving adolescent and young adult athletes have also found that structured psychological support can reduce competitive anxiety.
At SOAR, we bring that understanding into personalized counselling that considers sport, relationships, school, family, and identity together. Support is adapted to each person’s age, needs, and goals, with parent or caregiver involvement where helpful.
Our focus is helping young people feel more grounded, develop practical coping and performance skills, and build a sense of self-worth that extends beyond results.
Room for ambition. Space to be yourself.
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Sometimes the hardest part of sport is what you carry into it—or take home afterward. SOAR Sports offers space to work through those experiences, supporting the person behind the athlete and the goals that matter to them.
Counselling may help with:
Anxiety & pressure: Pre-game nerves, tryouts, fear of mistakes, and expectations from yourself or others.
Confidence & self-worth: Self-doubt, comparison, perfectionism, and negative self-talk.
Focus & performance goals: Developing helpful routines, managing distractions, and resetting after mistakes.
Emotions & setbacks: Navigating frustration, disappointment, difficult performances, selection decisions, and changes in playing time.
Injury & recovery: Working through the emotional impact of injury, time away, and worries about returning to sport.
Relationships & belonging: Team dynamics, communication with coaches, feeling excluded, and finding your place.
Balance & enjoyment: Managing sport alongside school, work, relationships, and rest; exploring burnout or changing motivation.
Identity & transitions: Understanding yourself beyond athletic performance, changing teams or competitive levels, and deciding whether to continue or step away.
Together, we work toward greater confidence, balance, and well-being—in sport and beyond.
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The initial consult is a free (15 min) opportunity for the parent and/or child, youth, or young adult athlete to assess fit with us by learning more about services offered, approaches utilized, and asking any questions they may have prior to deciding to move forward with counselling. In some cases, referrals for alternate supports may be provided.
This gives a chance to share your story, ask questions, and get a feel for whether SOAR Sports is the right fit. We want to understand how things feel, what has been difficult, and what they hope might change. Parents and caregivers are welcome to share their perspective, too.
Sport counselling is client-led, confidential, and focused on creating a safe space to explore current challenges, goals, and next steps.
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Through SOAR sports counselling, you bring your whole self. There is room to talk about the game, school, friendships, family, and everything that connects them.
We begin by building trust where each person feels heard, understood, and respected. Drawing on evidence-based approaches tailored to their age and needs, we explore challenges and develop practical ways to respond to worry, manage emotions, and navigate setbacks.
If supporting performance is one of their goals, we also work together on strategies such as managing competition nerves, maintaining focus, setting realistic goals, and resetting after mistakes.
Each person’s priorities help guide the work, with their mental health, confidence, and well-being at the centre.
During counselling we will incorporate evidence-based techniques that are suitable and tailored to the specific needs of the client and their therapeutic goals, meeting each client where they’re at.
Areas of Service
SOAR supports children, youth, young adults, parents, couples, and families through focused specializations, life stressors, and everyday challenges that shape mental health, relationships, and daily life.
Specializations
Focused counselling support for children, youth, young adults, parents, couples, and families navigating specific mental health, developmental, relational, and life-stage concerns.
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Academic pressure, school stress, and burnout
Test anxiety, homework battles, and study stress
School avoidance, school refusal, and back-to-school transitions
Bullying & Peer-Relationship Challenges
Low motivation, confidence, and purpose after school stress
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Safety concerns and emotional recovery
Friendship challenges, social anxiety, and peer pressure
Social media stress, online conflict, and comparison
Loneliness, exclusion, and social isolation
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Parent-child conflict and family communication challenges
Sibling conflict and changing family roles
Attachment-related family concerns
Screen time, gaming, and technology-related conflict
Creating calmer family routines and connection at home
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Parental divorce or separation for children and youth
Blended family transitions
Moving, relocation, or changing schools
New baby or changing family roles
Big life transitions and change
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Grief & loss
Loss of a pet
Medical illness or health-related family stress
Trauma-related stressors
Safety concerns and emotional recovery
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Parent stress and caregiver burnout
Parent support with system navigation
Infertility stress
Prenatal and postpartum adjustment
Supporting children while managing your own stress
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Body image, self-esteem, and social comparison
Gender and sexual identity support
Belonging, confidence, and identity development
Peer pressure and fitting in
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Sport pressure and performance stress
Perfectionism and fear of failure
Team, coach, or extracurricular stress
Injury, recovery, and return-to-activity stress
Building confidence, resilience, and healthy motivation
Stressors
Support for the life experiences, pressures, and transitions that can affect a child, youth, young adult, parent, or family’s emotional wellbeing.
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Anxiety in children and youth
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD
Emotional regulation difficulties
Worry, fear, panic, and overwhelm
Perfectionism and fear of failure
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School avoidance and school refusal
Sleep challenges in children and teens
Behavioural challenges
Difficulty with routines, transitions, and daily expectations
Challenges with attention, motivation, or follow-through
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Depression in children and teens
Low mood, irritability, or withdrawal
Body image and self-esteem
Low confidence and negative self-talk
Loss of interest, motivation, or sense of purpose
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Disordered eating patterns
Body image concerns
Safety concerns and risk support
Self-harm concerns
Concerns around food, control, or emotional coping
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Trauma and stress-related concerns
Attachment challenges
Parent-child relationship concerns
Family communication challenges
Emotional safety, trust, and connection
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Autism queries
Neurodiversity support
Social, sensory, or communication differences
Support for parents exploring developmental concerns
Helping children and youth understand their strengths and needs
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Parent support
Couples counselling
Couples work related to parenting, stress, or family transitions
Parent-child conflict
Family counselling and relationship support
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Prenatal counselling
Postpartum counselling
Infertility-related stress
Adjustment to parenthood
Supporting parents through major family changes
Everyday Challenges
Not every concern fits neatly into a diagnosis or single stressor. SOAR also supports children, youth, young adults, parents, and families with the everyday challenges that shape mental health, confidence, connection, and daily life.
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Building healthy school routines
Managing school stress and burnout
Improving study habits and follow-through
Rebuilding motivation after a hard school year
Helping kids and teens find confidence, purpose, and direction
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Summer planning for children and teens
Adjusting from school structure to summer freedom
Creating simple family rhythms during breaks
Supporting transitions back to school
Helping kids reset through rest, responsibility, connection, and purpose
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Helping children manage big emotions
Building calming strategies for stress and overwhelm
Practicing emotional regulation at home, school, and activities
Developing healthy coping tools
Supporting kids with anxiety, ADHD, sensory needs, or emotional intensity
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Creating calmer home routines
Reducing daily power struggles
Building connection between parents and children
Supporting family communication
Making home life feel more predictable, supportive, and connected
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Managing pressure in youth sports
Building confidence and resilience
Supporting kids through competition stress
Helping young athletes manage anxiety
Using sports to build life skills, motivation, and emotional strength
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Supporting your child’s mental health at home
Knowing when counselling may help
Helping parents respond to stress, anxiety, or big emotions
Building realistic expectations and family rhythms
Finding practical tools that fit real family life
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Understanding child and youth mental health
Recognizing signs of stress, anxiety, or low mood
Learning simple ways to support mental wellness
Helping teens and families talk about mental health
Finding the right level of support before things feel overwhelming
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Finding local mental health resources
Understanding support options in White Rock, South Surrey, and across British Columbia
Navigating school, community, or healthcare supports
Knowing where to start when your family needs help
Connecting families with practical next steps
Therapeutic Approaches
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Cognitive-behavioural therapy is a relatively short-term, active treatment for a wide range of mental health issues including: depression, anxiety, anger, loneliness, panic attacks, perfectionism, procrastination, discomfort in social situations, and self-criticism. CBT has been found to be an effective form of treatment for children, adolescents and adults through decades of clinical trials. The focus of treatment is on identifying how you are thinking, feeling, and behaving in your daily life and then understanding how each dimension of these thoughts, emotions and behaviours impact one another. CBT helps children identify patterns of biases in their thinking, or “thinking traps”, and provides guidance on how to challenge and change these distortions that are negatively impacting their mood and/or behavior. CBT is an empowering treatment that encourages your child to test out ways to challenge negative patterns of thought or behavior in between sessions, during real-life situations and stressors, so that they can increase their competency and sense of efficacy in dealing with emotional issues on their own.
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Play therapy is a form of therapy used primarily for children. That’s because children may not be able to process their own emotions or articulate problems to parents or other adults.
While it may look like ordinary play time - it is much more than that. A counsellor uses play time to observe and gain insights into a child’s problems. The counsellor will then help the child explore emotions and cope with unresolved trauma. Through play and art, children can learn new coping mechanisms and how to redirect inappropriate behaviors.
According to the professional organization Play Therapy International, up to 71 percent of children referred to play therapy may experience positive change.
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Mindfulness is a commonly used term with many meanings. Here we refer to mindfulness as cultivating a sense of awareness and acceptance of the present moment. Mindfulness-Based Therapies include numerous evidence-based therapies that have been adapted around mindfulness to deal with serious challenges and enhance overall well-being. These therapies are effective for all ages and include: Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), a range of breathing practices, acceptance strategies to work with thoughts and emotions, and practices in cultivating self-compassion. A large growing body of research shows that training our brain to be mindful, to be aware in the moment, actually remodels the structure of our brain to improve our attention, focus, problem solving, emotion regulation, self-compassion, attunement and connection to self and others, and even alters the way the brain responds to stress.
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Dialectical Behaviour Therapy was developed to help children who have significant difficulty regulating their emotions and their behaviours. This approach combines behaviour therapy (through skill building) and emotional validation (through fostering acceptance). Your clinician will design a treatment plan based on your child’s needs, which includes targeting pervasive emotional dysregulation and improving interpersonal relationships. Both you and your child will be learning new skills to regulate intense emotions, tolerate stressful events, and improve
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Solution-focused therapy is a goal-directed collaborative approach to therapeutic change that is done through direct observation of clients' responses to a series of constructed questions. The concentration is on supporting individuals to move towards the future that they want and to learn what can be done differently by tapping into their existing skills, strengths, strategies, and ideas – rather than focusing on the problem at hand. The therapeutic approach is meant to be goal-oriented and short term.
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Other therapeutic techniques we are well versed in include:
Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)
Attachment Parenting
EMDR
“Jasmine provided my family and I with a therapeutic outlet and tools that have truly strengthened our whole household dynamic”
— FORMER PARENT CLIENT